Parenting is a challenge. But, when your child has special needs, this challenge becomes unimaginably harder. The demands are relentless. The decisions are complex. And the mental toll? Overwhelming would be an understatement.
Parents often juggle between different roles. They’re caregivers, advocates, and educators while managing their own emotional well-being. The weight of this responsibility is immense, and it’s not uncommon for parents to question if they’re doing enough.
The emotional aspect of raising a child with special needs is particularly challenging. There’s a constant worry about their child’s future. Then, there’s a fear of societal judgment. Plus, the isolation that often accompanies such a journey adds to the exhaustion.
Such parents may experience various emotions, from deep love and fierce protectiveness to frustration and sadness. There’s a persistent feeling of uncertainty as every day brings new challenges and unknowns. Yet, amidst all this, they continue to give their all, fueled by their unconditional love for their child.
In this journey, one thing that many parents of children with special needs seek is strength. The responsibility is often so taxing that they look for open conversations and experiences from others walking the same path. These stories offer a reminder that they are not alone in their struggles.
They find solace in knowing others have faced similar challenges and persevered. Additionally, they can find new ideas, solutions, or methods to help their child even better. This support is invaluable, providing the emotional boost they need to keep going.
An example of the powerful impact of open conversations about the matter can be seen in the program “Me and My Inspiring Son.” Aired during Ramadan 2024, this Arabic radio show resonated deeply with the GCC audience. Dr. Rania Shamas, a renowned executive coach and a mother of a child with Down syndrome, co-hosted the show, making it a platform for providing strength for parents.
With her deep understanding of emotional intelligence, Dr. Shamas connected strongly with fellow mothers going through a similar ordeal. She created a space to openly share experiences, struggles, and triumphs. The program wasn’t just about discussing the challenges. It was about providing a sense of community and understanding, often missing for parents in similar situations.
What made the show even more impactful was its contribution to destigmatizing autism. Along with her co-host, who is a mother raising an autistic child, Dr. Shamas used the platform to break down barriers and encourage open discussions about disability.
This initiative proved to be a lifeline for parents seeking inspiration while playing a crucial role in fostering a more inclusive society. The program’s influence was recognized at the Gulf Radio and Television Festival, where it received the prestigious Golden Dhow Award in the talk show category.
This accolade highlighted the importance of such conversations and the need for more platforms to support and inspire parents of children with special needs.
Besides this radio show, Dr. Shamas has used her corporate influence as a respected figure in retail and fashion to lead campaigns to raise awareness and destigmatize special needs. These campaigns strived to develop more neurodiverse spaces for children while also helping parents find strength and hope.
Moreover, they played a special role in shaping the UAE’s inclusion policy. Dr. Shamas believes this groundbreaking policy will have a greater impact on these gifted children and their determined parents.
As we reflect on the impact of Dr. Rania Shamas’ efforts, it becomes clear that the need for support and inspiration among parents of special needs children is vast. These parents often carry a heavy burden but do not have to bear it alone. The experiences shared by others can be a source of immense relief, giving them the strength to keep moving forward.
Finally, to all the parents raising children with special needs, remember this: you are doing great. The love and care you provide are unmatched. While the journey may be tough, you are not alone. Seek out the stories of others. Connect with those who understand. Find comfort in knowing that every step you take is a step toward a brighter future for your child.
Dr Shamas says : Her life took another path after Myriam Birth , she moved from SURVIVING to THRIVING and from WHAT IF to WHAT’S POSSIBLE . Myriam taught me to live the present , love unconditionally , and be myself freely . for me i call these Children ( Gifted Children ) , they come to teach us how to be true to ourselves and live in the present moment .
There is always hope, and sometimes, the most powerful inspiration comes from the experiences we share. So, let’s join hands with people like Dr. Rania Shamas, who are striving to raise awareness, provide hope, and create a more equitable society for these gifted children.
Published by: Nelly Chavez
